Kissing's probably nice, but I don't want to kiss cause that's supposed to be for feelings and shit. If I'm screwing around without developing feelings for them, it's better that way so no ones actually getting hurt, right?
[Whether Kinjou agrees or disagrees isn't really Arakita's concern, but explaining it feels necessary; and whether it's about Toudou or not still applies. As far as he's thinking, it is just mutual masturbation - why get feelings if someone else is using him just for that too?]
Shit getting tangled like that just doesn't appeal to me. I don't want relationships with it if I'm going to end up stuck fooling around and making booty calls. Cause deciding to not partake in any of it just won't work sometimes, like with the maze. We didn't want to fuck around, but we had to because it was impossible to just go anywhere like that.
[This is a very eye-opening conversation to Kinjou, and not just because this is a completely different outlook on sex than he has, but it also is a different take on Arakita. Maybe it really is a bit better to make those sorts of connections with people without getting too close. It's to avoid getting hurt, right? In case things become too personal.
If that's the way Arakita wishes to do things then far be it from Kinjou to tell him he has to change his way of thinking. It's not like he's the be all/end all on how sex needs to be done. He only knows about as much as he's done which has... only been a little over a month's worth of experience.
Does Arakita know more than him? He doesn't know. But he has his own opinion, and if that's how he'd rather do things, then he'll let him.]
[It makes sense to Arakita is how he'd argue it. Why burn the energy getting emotional about sex if more than half of his 'partners' are going to be just looking to get off too? Still, the question throws him off-guard before he grins a bit on his end of the line, almost wanting to chuckle - aren't they the same age, how could he have never heard that term before?]
What, seriously? Basically just calling someone to go fuck.
[Because he's a sheltered delicate nerd that sews snake patches onto his jersey.]
Ah. [He had no idea there was a term for that. It's kind of crude, but then... it's for sex. So it figures that that'd be used to get the point across clearly.]
Then if that is what you intend to do, at least be careful with who you call. [Don't make bad decisions, don't get hurt and all that. But it does make him think of something.]
If you must make one, I don't mind receiving it from you. A booty call.
[The perk to being from the #thugglyfe for nearly a year before he got his shit together. He was going to make the simple yeah yeah, I'll be fine, but then Kinjou offers to be called sometime and Arakita feels his face heat up all over again.]
A-Aa? Alright, I'll. Keep that in mind. [Fuck, he stuttered again didn't he. You didn't hear anything, Kinjou.]
IM NOT SORRY FOR NOT GOING TO BED THOUGH
on 2016-03-15 10:24 pm (UTC)[Whether Kinjou agrees or disagrees isn't really Arakita's concern, but explaining it feels necessary; and whether it's about Toudou or not still applies. As far as he's thinking, it is just mutual masturbation - why get feelings if someone else is using him just for that too?]
Shit getting tangled like that just doesn't appeal to me. I don't want relationships with it if I'm going to end up stuck fooling around and making booty calls. Cause deciding to not partake in any of it just won't work sometimes, like with the maze. We didn't want to fuck around, but we had to because it was impossible to just go anywhere like that.
1/2 bans you from late tagging
on 2016-03-15 11:46 pm (UTC)If that's the way Arakita wishes to do things then far be it from Kinjou to tell him he has to change his way of thinking. It's not like he's the be all/end all on how sex needs to be done. He only knows about as much as he's done which has... only been a little over a month's worth of experience.
Does Arakita know more than him? He doesn't know. But he has his own opinion, and if that's how he'd rather do things, then he'll let him.]
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on 2016-03-15 11:46 pm (UTC)What is a "booty call"?
u cant ban me u can only not tag me... which i'll cry about.
on 2016-03-16 12:01 am (UTC)What, seriously? Basically just calling someone to go fuck.
i would also cry. but maybe it'd be worth it to make you cry
on 2016-03-16 12:21 am (UTC)Ah. [He had no idea there was a term for that. It's kind of crude, but then... it's for sex. So it figures that that'd be used to get the point across clearly.]
Then if that is what you intend to do, at least be careful with who you call. [Don't make bad decisions, don't get hurt and all that. But it does make him think of something.]
If you must make one, I don't mind receiving it from you. A booty call.
dont be hatin like that ;a; i cry easy
on 2016-03-16 02:02 am (UTC)A-Aa? Alright, I'll. Keep that in mind. [Fuck, he stuttered again didn't he. You didn't hear anything, Kinjou.]